They Don’t Want You to Blog

This was probably the shortest weekend ever especially since we fast forwarded an hour with daylight savings. I come from a place where we didn’t have to change an hour ahead or an hour back. If you are new here, I’m originally from Puerto Rico so the time there stays the same.

So happy Monday everyone! I’m sure I won’t be the only one hogging a big cup of coffee to help me wake the hell up because I went to bed majorly late last night. Night owl issues.

I think my linkup of Weekend Recap has pretty much died down and so I won’t be doing it anymore. I was a terrible host by not commenting on my blogger’s who would link up; if I would comment, I wasn’t being consistent. I wasn’t even consistent with commenting on Lisa’s blog, who would co-host it with me. It had a nice run for a year or so and I’m thankful for all of you guys who linked up with us every Monday. I also felt like it was getting in the way of any creative ideas I wanted to share on a Monday so that’s that.

With that being said, I hope that this will make some room in my little corner of the internet to do other kinds of posts like my Confessions of a Blogaholic. I want to do more book reviews and other topics as I see fit.

Even though I won’t post weekend recaps anymore, that doesn’t mean I won’t mention a thing or two I did over the weekend. As DJ Khaled puts it, “They don’t want you to blog, but we will”.

So I went on a date.

Yeah, not earth shattering, but it felt good to put myself out there. I honestly had more fun getting ready than actually being on the date. So as usual, no second date and that’s fine and dandy with me.

The weirdest thing did happen yesterday. I heard from an old guy friend of mine whom I haven’t talked to in 4 years. Let’s call him JD. He pretty much broke our friendship, got married, has a new baby and is reaching out to me now. I sensed he was probably newly single and of course I was right. At least I got some closure as to why he broke our friendship and disappeared, but I sense that he wants to pick up where we left off.

This is where I get weary because I dated a guy last year who was going through a divorce and that was not fun AT ALL. My guard is up and I just want to be friends with him like we once were and we’ll see where things go.

That’s JD. Can’t believe this was 5 years ago. I was 28!

Not gonna lie, but his baby boy is so adorable. It’s so weird seeing friends I’ve known for years becoming parents. I always wonder when will it be my turn, but I’m not rushing that part of my life. I need to master my life before helping a new creature to doing the same. At least that’s how I feel about it now. Maybe we don’t have to have it all figured out.

Now if I could just figure out how to get this blog where I want it to be.

How was your weekend?