I have a confession to make.. when I get drunk, I get super duper lovie with friends, or guys, depending on where it occurs. I’ve been reading The Rules by Ellen Fein and Sherrie Schneider. In this book so far, it says that when going out with friends, enjoy yourself and not to be “looking”, but the guy who wants to get your attention will make the move, and it shouldn’t be you. Being drunk, nothing good usually happens. Not… Read More
Thinking Thursday: Shake It Off
I’m done with corporate America. It’s becoming more and more evident that I don’t belong anywhere near that place. Last night, my boss yelled at me over something so minute, and petty that I was besides myself, and in turn upset with tears. It’s apparent that she has issues, and took it all out on me. Why? Because I’m a nice person, and I have a sweet aura about me, that it’s so easy for anyone to just run over… Read More
That’s Why You’re Single
Being on this dating site is so dreadful sometimes I’m like, “Really?”. Last week I sent a wink to a guy, he wrote me an email (which usually means they’re interested) and this is what he said… “Hi Bella! Great profile! You look amazing!! I wish you well on Match”. REALLY? Wow. That’s why you’re single. Why even bother sending someone an email if you’re not interested and not only that, you are giving them a low blow by saying… Read More
Guest Post: D’Anna, Dateless in San Antonio {Part I}
Happy Tuesday my fabulous readers! I hope you all are having a wonderful day, I know I am. I’m so ecstatic to bring to you my very first guest post, and this one is written by the ever so lovely D’Anna. I’ve known her through the interwebs for about a decade now, since we met through a social site before FB even came along. Her story is not only common with what we have to deal with in dating, but… Read More
Thinking Thursday: Match.com + NYC
I didn’t last long being away from the online dating scene, but since my last date was a month ago and that didn’t pan out so good, I decided to get back onto the online dating sites. This time, I decided to go with Match, because the results always yielded better dates, and better chances of being asked out, as compared to POF. So far I’ve been on it for 6 days, and I have yet to be asked out… Read More
Goodbye Mr. Big {VDay is a Month Away}
I realized Valentine’s Day is a month away as of this past weekend. I don’t have any hopes or plans, but I do have a broken heart I’m trying to mend. People often say that love is messy, you fight, make up, you have emotions like a rollercoaster because you can be happy with that person, then angry or sad the next. But when my heart burst, I couldn’t take it anymore so I walked away.. from Mr. Big. I… Read More
Book Review: Text. Love. Power. by Vanessa Taylor
I wish I had read this book a month ago! It answered so many questions that I wish I had known the answer to them as situations were happening to me and unfolding before my eyes. This book was the most helpful read and I will surely put into action the advice that was given. Basically, it revealed that texting is your worst enemy in most occasions. Why? Although texting is convenient when you can’t talk to someone and need… Read More
Thinking Thursday: I’m Busy
I have been so amazingly busy these past few days because of the launch of bellaesque.com, and this blog, it keeps a gal like me super busy! and I’m loving every minute of it. I made a new connection with a model, actress and businesswoman Rosemarie Reyes, and I am really thankful that she walked into my life, unexpectedly. Although we don’t know each other personally, we have already connected well and I feel nothing but good vibes. We met… Read More
The Mummy
Dating definitely has its ups and downs, like the weather. You hate it one minute, and love it the next. It’s a game field you inevitably have to play, or be on the sidelines. I’m not a passive person, so I play the game. There’s times that I’ve told someone that we shouldn’t see each other because I’m not ready for a relationship, or I think we should be friends, or plainly I’m just not interested in them. But it’s… Read More
Things I ❤ Tuesday: First of 2012
Hello lovelies! I bring you the first edition of Things I love Tuesday for 2012. I have been thinking about how much I’ve missed reading, and I saw this challenge on Goodreads.com and I had to take it on. If you’re a bookworm such as myself, you should also join in! This month I’m going to finish reading “Girl with the Dragon Tattoo”, since I really want to see the movie. I figured I can handle one book a month,… Read More
